Healthy mind, body and baby
It is not uncommon for people to experience a range of thoughts and feelings about their pregnancy and about becoming a parent.
While this can be a time of great joy, it can also be a stressful time and comes with a range of physical and emotional changes.
For about 1 in 5 people, this time can be associated with a range of mental health problems, for example: depression, anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, post-traumatic stress, tokophobia (fear of childbirth), eating disorders and symptoms such as hearing or seeing things or having unusual beliefs. These problems may have been present at a previous time in your life and may recur in the perinatal period, or it may be that the problems develop for the first time during this period.
At your first appointment with your midwife, you will be asked about your physical and mental health history including family history. You will also be asked how you are feeling about your pregnancy, childbirth and your baby to help plan your care.
During your pregnancy and after you have had your baby, your midwife will continue to ask you about your mental health and emotional wellbeing. Through discussion with you, your midwife will offer options for support to meet your needs.
Pregnancy and parenthood can be a challenging time, and it’s important to stay well. The first step is to speak to someone about how you’re feeling.
Seeking help is not always easy, especially when you are not feeling well. However, taking that first step of asking for support shows strength, courage and will always be viewed as a positive step. There are support and treatment options available that might be able to help you to cope with your difficulties. This could be talking therapies, a specialist midwife, specialist perinatal mental health services, GP.
During the last three months of pregnancy and the first two years of life your baby’s brain is developing at a rapid rate. Responding to your baby’s needs can support emotional and mental development. Developing a close and loving relationship with your baby will lay the building blocks for them growing into a secure and confident child and adult.
Pregnancy is a special time and you may already be starting to connect with your baby. This will help you form a strong and loving bond with your baby after birth.
You can help to build your relationship by taking time out every day to relax, stroke your bump, talk or sing to your growing baby and respond to your baby’s movements.
Scans and research show that even in the womb, babies yawn, suck their thumbs and respond to familiar voices and music.
Bonding with your baby and becoming a parent resources
If you are currently taking medication for your mental health DO NOT STOP without seeking medical advice.
Stopping your medication can make your illness return or become worse.
Further information on medication during pregnancy is available on the BUMPS website.
You can still breastfeed whilst taking most medications for your mental health. Further information is available on the Lactmed database.
We are a team of Perinatal Mental Health Midwives
We will be part of your care during your journey through pregnancy and into parenthood if your current or previous mental health difficulties are identified as moderate-severe/complex by your midwife / health care team.
We work closely with the Specialist Perinatal Mental Health service and other mental health teams, along with your maternity team, health visitor and GP.
It is our role to ensure that you are provided with compassionate, non-judgemental supportive care, to empower you to make your own decisions.
Together, we can discuss your preferences for care around pregnancy and birth. We will promote your relationship with your baby and provide you with additional information about how your mental health and medication can impact on your pregnancy and breastfeeding.
We are available as a resource for other professionals with regards to perinatal mental health to support women to access the most appropriate care / service to meet their needs.
Contact
Julie Fallows (Specialist Perinatal Mental Health Midwife) mobile 07771562868
Sarah Graham (Specialist Perinatal Mental Health Midwife) mobile 07976 372694
Jane Osborne (Perinatal Mental Health Midwife) mobile 07964246768
Preconception referrals - Your GP or mental health worker can refer to the Specialist Perinatal Mental Health team for pre-conception advice.
Psychological therapy - Talking Therapies offer a range of brief psychological interventions to support people’s differing emotional needs (such as generalised anxiety, panic, Depression, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder), this includes online, telephone and face-to-face treatment and therapy options.
Parents can self-refer to all NHS Talking Therapies and will be prioritised.
Talking Therapies : Lancashire and South Cumbria NHS Foundation Trust (lscft.nhs.uk)
If your mental health problems are moderate/severe or longer lasting, the maternity team can put you in touch with specialist mental health services.
Women in need of inpatient care for severe mental illness may be referred to a mother and baby unit (MBU). These units enable women to stay with their babies while receiving specialist care.
Lancashire and South Cumbria NHS Foundation Trust Perinatal Mental Health Service (lscft.nhs.uk) Lancashire and South Cumbria NHS Foundation Trust Ribblemere Mother and Baby unit (MBU) (lscft.nhs.uk)
A number of women may have experienced birth trauma, loss or have a fear of childbirth. Early detection, referral and support can have lasting, positive outcomes and improved wellbeing.
The Lancashire and South Cumbria Reproductive Trauma Service has been set up to offer a variety of support and therapies to those who are experiencing moderate to severe symptoms related to:
- Birth trauma
- A fear of childbirth (tokophobia)
- Perinatal loss – including:
- early miscarriage,
- recurrent miscarriage,
- stillbirth,
- neonatal death,
- termination of pregnancy for any reason,
- parent infant separation at birth.
The trained therapists can provide a range of psychological interventions and support which will be discussed with you to meet your personal needs. These may include psychological therapies, relaxation techniques, anxiety management or information to help you with your difficulties. They may be within a group or in a one-to-one setting.
To be referred into the service or if you feel you need some support, please contact your health care professional such as GP, health visitor or midwife.
If you know, or are looking after, a parent who you believe is in crisis or there is an immediate risk to a mother, baby or others, please ring:
The Initial Response Service (IRS) Tel: 08000130710 (24hrs) covering Morecambe Bay Footprint. IRS provides 24-hour access to mental health care, advice, support and treatment. By calling 0800 013 0710, you can speak to a member of the team where you can discuss your current mental health needs.
The Bay - Lancaster, Morecambe and South Cumbria (lscft.nhs.uk)
Please note, you may be asked to attend the Emergency Department at Royal Lancaster Infirmary or Furness General Hospital, Barrow for urgent assessment.
Peer support brings together people with similar experiences. Your peers can:
- support you and listen to how you’re feeling
- offer empathy and understanding
- share experiences, information, suggestions for self-care and support options
Useful information about preparing for birth, becoming a mum or becoming a parent
- Pregnancy and Post-birth Wellbeing Plan
- Mental health before, during and after pregnancy
- Best beginnings - out of the blue videos
- Understanding your mental health and emotional wellbeing during pregnancy and after the birth of your baby (mothers)
- Proud 2 B Parents
- Stonewall UK - parenting rights
- Pink Parents
Mental Health problems and pregnancy
Information leaflets on perinatal mental health
- Royal College of Psychiatry: Planning a Pregnancy - Advice for Mothers with Mental Health Problems
- Action on Postpartum Psychosis: Planning Pregnancy a Guide for Women at High Risk of Postpartum Psychosis
- Bipolar UK: Bipolar Disorder, Pregnancy and Childbirth
- Royal College of Psychiatry: Postnatal Depression
- Royal College of Psychiatry: Postpartum Psychosis
- Royal College of Psychiatry: Bipolar Disorder
- Royal College of Psychiatry: Anxiety, panic & phobias
- Royal College of Psychiatry: Perinatal Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
- Eating disorders and pregnancy
Further sources of help and information
- Action on Post-Partum Psychosis
- The Samaritans
- PANDAS Foundation
- The Maternal Mental Health Alliance
- Bipolar UK: Women and Bipolar
- Association for Post Natal Illness: Postnatal Depression
- Maternal OCD
- Make Birth Better
- Birth Trauma Association
- Pregnancy, Birth and Parenthood after Childhood Sexual Abuse
- Counselling & Supporting Survivors of Rape and Sexual Abuse
Resources for self-help
- Understanding your mental health and emotional wellbeing following the birth of your baby (fathers)
- Mind the Dad
- Action on Post-Partum Psychosis: Resources for Partners
- Association for Postnatal Illness: Advice for Carers
- Birth Trauma Association: Fathers/Partners Page
- Reaching Out, a resource for dads
- Dadsnet
- DAD.info - free expert advice and support for Fathers
- Becoming Dad - A guide for new fathers
- Dads Matter UK